2018年7月21日星期六

愛我本來的樣子





人類設計圖告訴我們,每個人的設計都是各具特色,也沒有誰比誰更重要。

不是每個人的原廠設定都是好好先生、好好孩子、好好XX。有些人的原廠設定會讓一個人較為喜怒無常、較為情緒化、容易使人生氣、愛指揮人、較為挑剔、較愛哭、較為喜歡照顧別人、較為貼心、容易強逼其他人、容易衝動、容易為一件事著迷或難以專注一件事。

有些人的生命是為了要增加自己的不同體驗。有些人的生命是以家為本,在家照顧孩子及打理家頭細務。有些人的生命就是要來冒險。有些人的生命就是為了保留傳統文化。

有些人好細個就知道自己條路要想點行,有些人就要來體驗人生不同的方向。

有些人容易相處,有些人很難相處。

我們每一個都是人類故事的一個重要角色。無論一個人的角色是甚麼,都是值得被愛的,而且是以自己的本來樣貌被愛。

每個人都有一個原廠設定,而這個設定就是每個人的本來樣貌。我們無法改變一個人的本來樣貌,但我們可以學習用愛去回應一個人的本來樣貌。

原文:

Love me for who I am (By Karen Curry)

Not everyone is designed to be nice. Some people are moody, emotional, provocative, bossy, critical, wimpy, nurturing, sweet, compulsive, impulsive, obsessed or lacking in focus by Design.
Some people are here to experience all that life has to offer. Others are designed to stay at home and cook big pots of stew and kiss boo-boos. Some of us are designed for adventure. Others are here to maintain the status quo.
Some of us have direction and we know it from the start of our lives. Others of us are here to experience all the permutations and directions that life offers us.
Some people are easy to get along with and like. Others are more challenging.
And we all play a crucial role in the Human story.
And being loved for who we are...warts and all...is something we all deserve.
The mechanics of personality and even the mechanics of how we interact in relationship are not personal. It’s just energy and we can’t necessarily control the energy.
Be we can control our response to it. That part IS personal.

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