接二連三聽到有父母，面對著擁有通道12-22的孩子，感到不知如何是好。。。
的確，若孩子的設計圖出現這條通道，容易讓父母感到不知如何是好。。。因為擁有這條通道的孩子，情緒會較為飄忽，突然心情好（in the mood），突然又心情不好（not in the mood）。重點是，孩子無mood的話，就咩都唔肯做。。。
父母的耐性就這樣，每天都被考驗著。。。
因為咁，我刻意找了我的朋友，一個擁有通道12-22的朋友，一個長大了的朋友。我想知道，擁有這條通道的她，希望如何被對待。
這是她的分享，很詳細，如果你是父母，希望你能夠從她的分享中，了解到孩子的需要，以及如何陪伴孩子成長。
"Hi Tracy, where to begin Lol... there’s sooooo much I can say about my experience with this energy. I have by far found it to be one of my most challenging parts of me, but also see its beauty... I have come to embrace, accept, flow and surrender to it as well. My 12/22 has a pattern or cycle of a months span around my cycle, sorry everyone if that’s TMI Lol, but the closer I get to my cycle the lower on my wave I go. Since I’m a Manifesting Generator, the lows of my 12/22 I welcome and give myself permission to slow down and rest and this flows nicely with my 5/15 as well... I live my every day life in flow, guided by my intuition and what I’m in the mood to do or not.
Any point of my wave can be a creative time for me, depends on what I’m in the mood to do or create, but typically when I’m feeling low, I rest or take that time to write or watch a movie or any form of self-care (physically, emotionally, spiritually) I’m know I’m not a victim of my wave and whatever mood I’m feeling is something I’m experiencing temporarily.
Things that can influence my 12/22: I have the 19/49 Tribal wave and hanging Gate 37 as well and that can influence or ‘throw off’ my 12/22 cycle if there is a relationship conflict or upset. Also I’ve noticed that sometimes I can be in a mid or high part of my wave and eager to create or get things done, but if my defined root pulses off, it shuts down that momentum Lol and so I surrender and go with that flow as well.
My 2nd line profile plays into this energy as well. The mood has to be right for me to communicate or share, also the lower on my wave I am the more I hermit. Additionally, I know when it’s the right time to respond to certain things/people or not, I listen and follow my intuition (internal flow), if the mood isn’t right to respond or it’s not the right timing to articulate I have a hard time trying to communicate what I’m trying to share or it doesn’t come out right or is taken in the wrong way. As we all know, timing is truly everything.
In my experience and opinion I think it’s fair to say for people who are entrepreneurs or doing their business online via social, it’s more challenging for people to show up consistently because there’s going to be periods of times when you don’t want to make a video or post or show up on IG stories or FB Live etc... because you’re not in the mood and when those people force it because they think they ‘have to’ because that’s how they’re making their money, that energy comes across. I know a couple people who have this energy and have just been up front and honest with their followers and explained to them about how their energy works and what they can expect.
I think one of the most loving things we can do for emotionally defined people is 1. to be aware of this energy without judgement and 2. to ask them, “Hey, are you in the mood to....” and then be totally and completely okay with whatever their answer is, and realize it’s not personal when they say, no, sorry, I’m not really in the mood to do that right now... no guilt, no judgement, just love, acceptance and understanding. Honoring that energy and giving space for it.
I could go on and on with this...lots of different stories I could share as well, but I’ll lastly share this. This is an very short cliff notes version of an example story from a time in my life way before I knew anything about HD.
I was married for almost 10 years and the last 5 years of it was the most toxic, particularly with the very worst being the last 2 years before it cataclysmically ended. As you can imagine being in this type of tumultuous relationship with my 12/22, 19/49 and hanging 37 my emotions were alllllll over the place consistently....I knew it was because of my relationship and everything going on in my life was the reasons why I seemed so emotionally all over the place and my ex (who proudly self-diagnosed himself as a narcissistic sociopath) kept trying to convince me there was something wrong with me and I needed to be on medication.
As belittled, weak and beat down as I was at the time there was still a little fire within deep deep down that just knew there wasn’t anything wrong with me and I refused to go on medication. (Not that there’s anything wrong with medication, I know some people need it and I personally know people it has greatly helped) but I just knew deep down it wasn’t about medication for me, I didn’t have a chemical imbalance, I wasn’t bi-polar, I didn’t need anti-depressants, I knew it was because of my relationship and everything happening in my life at the time and he was just wanting to try and convince me to get on medication as another way to manipulate and control me.
Long story short, years later when I met my Design and saw my configuration and looked back at this moment in time, all the dots connected and it all made perfect sense. I have 10 years of amazing life lessons just from this one teaching relationship alone. I am so grateful for all of it.
When we don’t know Who We Are, we’ll believe what other people tell us about who they think or say we are and that can be really dangerous depending on who that person is or where that person is at in their journey.
And how to see the advantage with this: A person having awareness of this energy definition and giving themselves space and permission to experience whatever arises is the most loving and empowering way to respond. To realize everything is just energy, to not lose sight of the bigger picture and to remain in a state of remembrance of consciousness that is never the victim, but one of Co-Creator."
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