心裡有話要說，腦海有事情想分享，卻不知道為何，常常感到對方沒有在聽、根本不想聽、甚至當面拒絕自己提出的意見。
是自己的表達能力有問題嗎？你在想。。。不是！不是表達能力有問題，你只是不了解原來有一些溝通方法需要遵守。
人類設計圖有一個喉嚨能量中心，這個能量中心負責表達及顯化。若果你的喉嚨能量中心是空白的，代表你的表達能量會因應身邊的人物及環境而改變，因為表達的能量會受外界影響，所以有時候你想表達自己，當下卻沒有相應的能量給你運用去傳遞你想說的話。
擁有空白喉嚨能量中心的人，很容易感到話說了，卻沒人在聽。
其實空白喉嚨能量中心有一套獨特的運用方式，我邀請你嘗試一下。
- 說話前問問對方，是否想聽聽自己的看法和心情，然後才分享自己的感受與見解。
- 靜靜地等待別人主動提問，才分享腦海的想法。
邀請你試試這兩個方法，看看別人是否更樂意聆聽你的分享及接受你的意見。
Do you have something important that you want to say, but you often feel not heard or worse rejected and unappreciated.
You are not alone and there is nothing wrong with you. You just didn’t know the right way to get attention before you speak.
In Human Design, there is a center called the throat center. It’s the center for communication. If you have it open, it means that you don’t have consistent access to communication energy.
And it’s common for the open throat to find themselves in situations where they feel that no one hears them.
In order to be heard, I invite you to try one of the followings.
You are not alone and there is nothing wrong with you. You just didn’t know the right way to get attention before you speak.
In Human Design, there is a center called the throat center. It’s the center for communication. If you have it open, it means that you don’t have consistent access to communication energy.
And it’s common for the open throat to find themselves in situations where they feel that no one hears them.
In order to be heard, I invite you to try one of the followings.
- You ask others if they are willing to hear what’s in your mind or how you feel before you speak.
- You wait for others to ask for your opinion before you share .
Try it and let me know if you find that more people are hearing you.
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